Three Difficult Conversations to Have About Affording College

Glory Turnbull / St. Mary's University »

The college application process is an exciting time for high school juniors and seniors. However, for low-income students, it can also be a time of worry in terms of financial needs. The average amount of student loan debt per student in the U.S. continues to climb, positioned at almost $40K in 2016. These following conversations may be difficult to have, but could help clear some misconceptions and prepare you for your financial journey ahead.

1. A Conversation With Yourself

The best thing to do early in your college application process is think hard about your goals and long-term plans. The Bureau of Labor Statistics’ website is a great place to start. Research online to find the answers to the following questions: 

  • What do you want to do and does that profession require a degree?
  • What salary do you expect?
  • What major do you want to declare?
  • Will you hold a part-time job while in school?
  • Are you willing to incur debt?
  • Do you want to attend a public or private university?
  • Alternatively, what about a community college or trade school?

Once you’ve sorted out some or most of these questions, move on to the next big conversation. 

2. A Conversation With Your Parent/Guardian

When you approach your parents about paying for college, it’s best to leave your assumptions at the door and be completely honest about your needs. It’s better to talk finances well before you commit to a school, as sometimes your parent/guardian will make paying for college more manageable. Set aside some time to discuss the following topics:

  • College funds and willingness/capability to pay for school
  • Limits to financial support
  • Other means of support, such as living at home in college, meals, books and transportation

If a parent/guardian can’t provide support, understand that it doesn’t mean they don’t support your goals and dreams, it just means money isn’t something they’re able to provide. FAFSA information, on the other hand, is something for which you should expect help from your parents, and once you complete your FAFSA, you’ll be ready for the final conversation.

3. A Conversation With Your Financial Aid Counselor

Before committing to a school, schedule an appointment with its financial aid office to discuss your aid package, which you should receive in the mail upon acceptance. Don’t be afraid to discuss your needs honestly with your counselor. Be sure to cover the following topics during your meeting:

  • The possibility of increases or decreases in your award package
  • The availability of internal scholarships and paid projects 
  • Federal work-study and on-campus jobs 
  • Potential personal difficulties such as unemployment or major medical procedures

Before leaving, pick up a business card so you can send your counselor a thank-you note later. Once you decide on a school, sending them a thank-you note may make you more memorable and help secure future meetings. 

The Takeaway

Applying for college can be stressful for low-income students, but having these conversations, and others, can help you think realistically about your future.

 

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